Often times, I lament the passing of time when my kids are hitting major milestones. Because as my husband puts it, "it just means they'll be gone soon." When my son turned 5, my husband sadly said, "Well, 13 more years and he will be gone forever."
And no matter how hard I tried to convince him that he's wrong, - "Oh, the kids can always come back home. Just because they move out, doesn't mean they'll be gone forever," - I know deep down, he's right. Once they move out after high school, it really never will be the same.
So normally anytime they move from stage to stage, it's a bittersweet moment for us, but not this time. This was all sweet - no bitter here.
We attended a minor league baseball game with the kids on Saturday night and other than one quick trip out of our seats for ice cream and one trip to ride the merry-go-round, we watched the entire 9 inning game.
This is huge people! Huge.
We've been attending minor league baseball games since the summer Sarah turned 2 and Peter was 3 1/2. And we have never gotten to watch more than 3 innings of the game. We were always up and down and back and forth - to the bathroom, to the concession stand, to the merry-go-round, to the bathroom again, and finally home out of exasperation and frustration.
But not this time. This time was different. This time was good. We actually got to watch the game. The whole game.
Sometimes moving on to a different stage is a good thing. Now instead of just doing things as a family, we can enjoy things as a family.
(Are these not two of the cutest snaggle-toothed grins you have ever seen?)